But Selfie is — was — more than the sum of its Facebook likes. Sure, much of the show is devoted to Internet in-jokes (in one episode, Eliza tries to make a friend by stalking her Yelp reviews and chirping back the same opinions; in another; in another, she stages club photos during a babysitting gig in order to one-up her Instagram rival), but there is also so much that isn’t reliant on them. In one of the most touching scenes of the series so far, after learning that Eliza only eats lunch standing over the trash can (she claims it helps her digestion, but really it’s because no one ever ate lunch with her), Henry buys her a personal trash can for his office, so she can eat lunch with him but not necessarily with him — a plot point that remarks on their increasing closeness but also their ongoing hesitation and wariness about becoming too close.
Selfie can also be quietly subversive at times. There are two interracial couples in the series — three when you count the inevitable Henry/Eliza pairing — but they exist in the same way that same-sex couples tend to exist on television these days: without either fanfare or questioning. Then there is Eliza’s character, who, having evolved remarkably from the pilot’s strange portrayal, is not shamed for her “revealing” office outfits (once in a while, Henry will mention them, but she mostly shrugs away his concerns) or for her no-strings-attached relationships. In fact, last week’s “Never Block Cookies” does a bait-and-switch of sorts when it opens with Henry’s conservative, old-fashioned beliefs — he chides Eliza for secretly using online dating apps to help him get laid, claiming that “casual sex is not the cure-all” — but then ends with him getting in a cab with a one-night stand. It’s an even playing field on Selfie, for all races and genders.
All that said: ABC canceled Selfie last Friday because of poor ratings. (Among the other canceled sitcoms so far this season are Manhattan Love Story, A to Z, and Bad Judge — two of which are also romantic-comedies, which doesn’t bode well for the genre’s future on television). The cancellation wasn’t surprising, but the immediate disappointment I felt was — who knew that Selfie would become one of my new favorites of the season? Selfie was never going to have the mass appeal to catch on, no matter how much it continued to improve during its first season, but it’s always frustrating to see a show get canceled just as it finds its footing.